Author: admin

Someone once said, “If you never heal from what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you.” In our fast-paced world of imperfect communication, hurt feelings are inevitable in relationships. But how can we break the cycle of pain and avoid inflicting it on others? Let’s explore why it’s essential to stop hurting people who haven’t harmed us and how we can move forward.

1. Recognize the Cycle

Hurt people often hurt others. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, we pass on our pain. Acknowledging this pattern is the first step toward breaking it. When we’re wounded, we must resist the urge to lash out at innocent bystanders.

2. Healing Takes Time

Healing is a process. We can’t rush it. Instead of bleeding our pain onto others, we should invest time in self-reflection, therapy, or seeking support. Only by healing ourselves can we avoid perpetuating hurt.

3. Shift Our Interaction

Recognize that we are not our own. Even if we love someone who hurt us, we must shift our interaction. Our Lord tells us to do so. Redirecting our energy away from hurting others allows us to break free from the cycle.

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Let’s choose compassion over aggression. By healing ourselves and refusing to bleed on those who didn’t cut us, we can build healthier relationships and foster understanding.

Remember: Hurt people can heal, and healed people can help others. 🌟

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“DO SOMETHING UNCOMFORTABLE TODAY BY STEPPING OUT OF YOUR BOX, YOU DON’T HAVE TO SETTLE FOR WHAT YOU ARE. YOU GET TO CREATE WHO YOU WANT TO BECOME.”

Fear has kept me back from lots of things. I am

Always be kind to strangers because sometimes people have no control over their words, they don’t even realize they are being rude. They are the ones that need the most understanding and the most patience and most of all deserve to be loved. Our special abilities kids grow up to be adults and they don’t advertise it. So just decide to be kind no matter what. This comes to mind because I think maybe I may have overlooked it at times and reacted negatively when actually I should have ignored.

“DO SOMETHING UNCOMFORTABLE TODAY BY STEPPING OUT OF YOUR BOX, YOU DON’T HAVE TO SETTLE FOR WHAT YOU ARE. YOU GET TO CREATE WHO YOU WANT TO BECOME.”

Fear has kept me back from lots of things. I am

Don’t give up on love no matter how many times it goes wrong. Don’t hold back on loving because the fear of getting hurt. Take a chance on being in love. Love with all you got. I see so many people nowadays put down love, put down being in love, put down that having feelings for someone is a horrible thing. I can’t imagine never being in love. Sometimes you won’t be loved back and that’s ok because it happens but when you’re loved back that will be what made all them wrongs worth it, because had you not taken any chances you wouldn’t have found the one that loved you back. You are never too old to find it either.

….but remember that serenity prayer when you go about with your day today.

“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”

….Don’t go about your day stressing about anything…everything will work out in your favor no matter how much someone tries to knock you down because you are going to make sure of it.

….Don’t let someone rob you of your happiness ever. Never give someone else that power over you.

…Tell/Show someone you love them today before it’s too late.

….Make your health a priority because someone needs you.

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I haven’t posted since January 20 and then I was having a hard time to post. I started working at the beginning of the year, it wasn’t planned so it has taken time to adjust to something new. At first I felt bad because my previous goal was to post something daily even if no one else but me, myself and I would read it but I had no idea what the future held. I haven’t added the gym back into my daily schedule either but I wil have to add that back soon. It will all come together, it didn’t go as planned and that’s ok because it’s ok to change your plans.

Author: Janonymous

Sometimes you just know. It’s a feeling. Sparks. Chemistry. It can be a glance, a smell, a smile, a laugh or a hair-raising touch if it is in person, on cam or on the phone. Or it can be a turn of phrase, a shared interest, an intriguing question or story, perhaps just a photo that causes the heart to flutter during an online chat. It just happens, and it defies explanation. When it works, it just works. But, the likelihood of it happening increases when your attitude is positive. Entering any interaction with a negative attitude seems to deter the likelihood of such a spark. If you’re just looking to put someone down, or win an argument, or prove you’re better than someone, it’s less likely to result in a quality chemical reaction. Anticipating something good begets the possibility of finding the spark. Being mean sets up a bad karmic construct. Be nice. Positive vibes create an atmosphere that allows sparks to fly, where one can catch glimpses of commonalities, of shared tastes for flavors that can be shared with one another, feeding off feelings for each other that can’t be explained. They just happen. But it doesn’t happen as often if you aren’t open to the possibilities. Go with the flow. Follow that spark that created the smile that warmed the heart that caused something to tingle from within. It’s better living through chemistry. When you know, you know. Go with it. As long as there is fuel for the fire, let it burn. It may burn out quickly, but let it warm your soul until it does. Who knows, there’s always the possibility it could be an eternal flame…

People come into your path for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do with that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty… To provide you with guidance and support… To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually… They may seem like they are a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die… Sometimes they walk away… Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand…. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled… Their work is done. The prayer you sent up has now been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons. Things you must build upon to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind, but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life… Whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime

~ Unknown author